Having the wrong expectations can be detrimental to overcoming hard things. The passive influence of social media and its catchy titles like "Three easy steps to finding your dream job" can give you an unrealistic expectations for what your job search will look like.
I started job searching at the end of July and accepted an offer in December. That's six months. Attempting to cram 6 months of work into a weekend sprint is a strategy for burnout - not success, but early on it was easy to get swept away by hacks and shortcuts online.
This post contains the correction I wish I had received early on, and I hope it gives you a chance to reset some of your own expectations in job searching.
So what's the alternative? Break it down into multi-hour, focused chunks. I call this "Making it a part-time job." It is going to get worse before it gets better, but breaking it down means you can face each small challenge one at a time.
In a recent , describes intellectually hard work as thought repetitions. Doing a little each day. His goal is writing a couple of pages, where as your goal should be submitting a couple of applications. You don't have to do any all-nighters or crazy binges. Consistent effort is key because it
My personal cadence was 5 - 8 am and when I was jobless an additional chunk of time from 9 - 12 pm.
You might have heard phrases like "if you don't track it, it won't improve." The same is true for job searching. You need a running record of what's working and what isn't. Something you can use to improve your process and be strategic.
Humans are communal creatures and even loners like me need other people.
Books can inspire you when you are down, and open your mind to dream of something better. Additionally, they are long enough that they can carry you through multiple weeks. I am confident I would have settled for less if I hadn't read these books last fall.
These are the books that helped me. Find yours!!
I tend to get consumed by problems I face, which suffocates relationship. When I ultimately started to go hermit mode during my job search, I was lucky enough to have people that would track me to down and hang out. I don't have a lot on this one. Just be intentional about maintain relationships. We need each other.
I could give a lot more advice on this last point, but it might turn into lifestyle blog material. 😬 To sum up, don’t start cutting off things that make you ... you, and put boundaries on the time that you think about job searching. Companies want to hire real people, not job searching zombies.
Thanks for reading 🤗
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